| Gender-Based Violence |
| For the past 3 yrs, I’ve been working with the International Rescue Committee managing gender-based violence programs (GBV) to help eliminate violence against women. The projects were developed initially as reproductive health initiatives to assist women who had been sexually assaulted during conflict. However, over the past few years the program has progressed to fight against injustice women face throughout a woman’s life span (conflict or non- conflict related). It’s an unfortunate fact that in Sierra Leone women were targeted by fighting factions as a terror method to intimidate the population. Even more unfortunate, though, is that the violence used against women was not a rare event caused by the war but were grotesque events which had its bearings in cultural attitudes about women’s role in society. Therefore, in order to set up programs that addressed the violence perpetrated against women in the war, we needed to also explore ways to challenge the community’s attitudes toward women that made such acts thinkable and tolerable. We set up multi faceted projects that looked at both the response to and prevention of assault on women and children. We also made sure that we incorporated all members of the community that had a stake in women’ s welfare. (Interesting! ……. that means that we needed to address everyone). This is not an isolated problem that has little ramifications on people who were not assaulted. Everybody has a mother, daughter, sister who could be potentially harmed by negative attitudes towards women held by the society. Our work in response focused on working closely with the police, health workers, community leaders, and local and international agencies to ensure they saw violence against women as a priority issue that can potentially affect everyone not just something that happens to individual women. We provided tools and training to ensure that women who were abused and came forward were treated with respect and not blamed for the assault that happened to them. Not necessarily an easy thing to do when the predominant thinking by men and women (including the educated professionals) was: “it is very hard for men to hold back their sexual urges” or “hitting your wife is a sign of love, especially if the wife is disobedient” or “girls these days walk around in shorts skirts, tight pants, and tight fitting shirts – What do you expect?”. A lot of our job was to dispel some of these myths. Besides challenging myths we faced additional constraints. We had to teach all the service providers what is gender, the theories behind violence, and guiding principles when dealing with a survivor of violence. We had to deal with competing interests – individual healing vs. society protection. For example the social workers (us) believe confidentiality is the cornerstone to their work. It gives those who were abused a sense of trust which helps begin the healing process. It also allows more people to come forward. The police and protection oriented people may find confidentiality useful at times but a nuisance if the survivor doesn’t want to prosecute the matter. They can easily drop confidentiality at the expense of the survivor if it means getting the perpetrator. Beyond the philosophical and attitude hurdles, the state infrastructure was completely destroyed by the war and poverty. Therefore there were not necessarily the resources (functioning courts, trained staff, hygienic hospital, drugs, etc.) to meet the demand for services or respond effectively. Unfortunately we also had to deal with corruption. One of the largest problems we had were doctors who charged survivors of rape an extra fee for what they perceived as additional work when dealing with these cases, i. e. testifying in court. The charges were exorbitant (sometimes Le 50,000 to be examined when most patients paid Le 1000). This obviously deterred most women from receiving the appropriate medical care needed. This had negative effect on the other support groups who depended on the hospital for referrals or in the case of the police as a place to receive substantiated evidence. As major barrier to the process, our program took this problem head on. With the support of other agencies, good statistics, and mobilization of key players we slowly improved the situation. Now 2 district hospitals no longer request additional payment for rape cases, setting an example for the rest of the country. |
| Protocol Workshop for Local Authorities, Bo |
| Serving her Husband, Kono |